California, United States

Dating in San Mateo

Meet real singles in San Mateo, whether you live here or are visiting.

Looking for singles in San Mateo? San Mateo is home to about 103,006 people, and The One Dating keeps your deck to real people near you, shows you who already likes you, and opens the chat the moment it is mutual. Here are a few first date ideas to try once you match.

First date ideas in San Mateo

  • Central Park

    A walk here keeps a first date easy and free.

  • San Mateo Arboretum

    A slow walk through the gardens makes an easy first date.

  • CuriOdyssey

    Easy to walk, talk and laugh.

  • San Mateo performing arts center

    Check the listings and make a night of it.

  • Pirooz Market

    A relaxed, wander-around first date.

  • Coyote Point Beach

    A walk along the water, best at sunset.

Meeting someone new? Read our first date safety tips and how to spot a fake profile.

How The One Dating works in San Mateo

  • No bots and no fake accounts in your deck: every like is a real person.
  • Pick a Main Character Vibe so matches know your energy before the first message.
  • See who already likes you, and get a short list of Top Picks from the preferences you save.
  • Only matches can message you, and block or report takes two taps.

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